What is Spiritual Companionship?
Spiritual Companionship is not Therapy.
Spiritual companions do not diagnose.
Spiritual companions do not problem solve. Spiritual direction is not focused on behavior change. Change may occur as a result of, for example, strengthening spiritual practices; however, it is not the goal.
Spiritual companioning always has a spiritual focus.
Talking about transcendence, mystery, meaning and unseen realities is expected in a spiritual guidance relationship. In therapy, spiritual components may arise, but it is not the focus.
Spiritual companionship recognizes the “third chair”.
Spiritual companions look to the Divine as the primary actor in the relationship.
Spiritual companions do not focus on a person’s personality structure.
Personality changes may happen but there is no expectation.
Health insurance does not cover spiritual direction.
Ordinarily, spiritual companionship only occurs once a month.
Spiritual companionship sessions typically begin with some sacred ritual such as prayer, silence, the sound of a chime, the lighting of a candle, etc.
(Blythe, Teresa, Spiritual Direction 101: the basics of spiritual guidance)
Spiritual Companionship engages the meaning making process through sacred story telling.
We are embedded in story, our own and other’s. Storytelling and story listening is how we make meaning of our lived experience. Our stories are a living thing, dynamic and always evolving as we travel through life. These stories certainly reflect the passing of time; however, our present moment story is the one we focus on in Nomadic Narratives. When we are deeply heard in sacred space, in the here and now, we have the opportunity to connect with our inner knowing. This inner knowing has many names and all names for the experience of the sacred are honored here. If you are feeling disconnected from your inner knowing or, perhaps have never felt connected to it, consider permitting Nomadic Narratives to accompany you on this journey of wonder and discovery.
The Evocative Method.
The evocative method is an approach to being present with someone is a non-directive way. It is the approach I use in providing spiritual support. It is also why many now use the term “spiritual companioning” instead of “spiritual direction”. What you will experience in spiritual companioning with me is non-judgmental, unconditional positive regard and a strongly held confidence in our own knowing. I will notice things and make observations. I will ask open ended questions. I may ask about your somatic (in the body) experiences such as “Where in your body do you feel the presence of the divine?” or, “How does God’s love feel in your body?” I may invite you into a time of silent prayer or meditation. I will be curious. I will listen deeply. I will laugh with you and hold safe space for your tears. We will learn from one another. I can’t wait.